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Life Lesson #153

Time. It has abilities to move mountains. Literally. You know about the Tectonic Motion, right?

And it also has the ability to make things happen. Life isn't so complicated after all. It keeps evolving, day by day. Your thoughts change, your beliefs become stronger and life goes on. Every day, we learn a little more about us. The bad. The good. The worst. The best.



There are a few realizations I have come across:

1. We MUST be Strong enough to face our fears. It is the only thing that holds us back - even mentally. Heard this before? The Old Gyaan? Facing fears is all about doing the thing you think you cannot do. It could range from some situational changes to starting up studies to learning artistry. Whatever it is that you have given up on because you are too afraid. Why hold back? You have a world in front of you. Whatever happens, will also run its own timeline and bring you towards light. Believe in that. Believe that whatever you do, you will be okay in the end. Risk it.

2. It is alright Not to be Perfect. Some people always aim that, but the road is never ending. It will always bring unhappiness. Yes, we can try to be better and we should, but we must not beat ourselves striving to be someone we cannot be. The Goal should remain to be "Yourself" - your very own abnormal and weird version. Even if people around you except you to "Walk like a Model" or "Cook like a Chef" or "Dress Like a Fashionista" or "Speak English with an Accent". You have your own goals pal. Abide by them. Not try to be according to what others say. Improve the personality and develop the thoughts which you want to. Which you think You need. Which you know you should improve.

3. Listen. Connect with People. The biggest lessons we learn are from people we meet in our day to day lives. Observe the qualities, abstain from the negative. Figure out why someone is the way that they are. I don't believe in being judgmental. This world will be so much better if we try to understand each other rather than putting them down, or using their weaknesses against them.

4. Sense of Humor. The ability to joke about "ourselves". Not others. These laughs only get us out of the gutter. We are introverts or ambiverts -- but we can always try not to keep people at such a distance that we cannot even reach them when needed.  Make good friends. Have a hearty laugh.

5. Refer to 2nd. Be your own version. Follow your own principles. Who Am I to give all the Gyaan, eh?



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  1. Unknown8 September 2020 at 10:40

    Someone wise once wrote, and I quote,"tell your heart that it is the fear of failure that is worst than failure itself and no heart has ever suffered when in pursuit of its dreams."
    Mines is .....

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