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What I learned in 2014

1. Nothing is ever the way you expect it to be. Harsh. But true. So you could sit with your book infront of you and imagine your future but it won't turn out exactly that way. Note: exactly

2. You are you. But you are also who you want to be. So one should always keep improving their lifestyles or habits according to the life they want  to lead or person they wana be. And nothing is wrong about the change that comes by.

3. Distance can never erode memories. A tv programme or a festival could bring up nostalgia. But you should always keep up with it and make new ones to remember later.

4. Books are indeed best friends.

5. Grudges are better be gone. Easy to say though. Needs practice.

6. You must do or try or have one new thing each day. It could go from buying a diamond necklace to gaining a little knowledge about something.  You could try black tea or make one yourself.

7.You should never take your feelings too seriously. Like if you are upset, thats ok too.

8. Never let anything define you. What others think or what others say. Be self secure. Never underestimate yourself. Have too much confidence. Have no fear. Whatever anyone else says, you are always good enough to be you.

9. Doing things for people makes you happy. But you could do them out of certain expectations and people may not even notice. So you do not have to care about it. Do as much you want to. Enough said. Enough heard. Enough done.

10. Its always easier to hear with one ear and take out from another. Helps your mental state.

11. Never keep in. Talk. Talk even more than you used to. Tell what made you feel good. Tell what made you feel bad. As they say, the good doubles and the bad halfens. Because you may sulk and sulk and get nothing but depression.

 12. Having an aim gives some purpose to life. But so does love. So when one goes missing, do know you have something else or you can always find both.

13. Your life is nothing but a reflection of your thoughts and how you feel.

14. Be true to yourself, if not to the world.

15. Its okay to make mistakes. Its not okay to ponder over them and have regrets.

16. Know the difference between self respect and ego.

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