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The year is new!

Another year rolled out, and you are still fidgeting with your dreams, aren't you?

Life changes year after year. Some disappointments you faced, some challenges you dealt with and you even achieved small goals. But, you aren't proud of yourself, all because "IT'S NOT THE LIFE YOU WANTED", eh?

Life is what is happening to you, right now. Even if you like it or not.
If you have to change something, step up.
If you want to be happy, embrace the niceness that is already around you.

How long would you keep fighting with yourself, for the chances you didn't take, for the mistakes you made?

STOP. Take a deep breath. Be proud of what you have. Proud of what you did.
Give a last look at the year you lived. Embrace the realizations you had.
If there is a decision to make, listen to your gut feeling. You ALWAYS know what is best for you. It's only self-doubt and fear that keeps you away from doing things that you want. The best advice somebody gave me this year was, "Believe that nobody else is above you." and trust me, nothing else will help you have self-confidence, other than this notion. After all, it is Your life and YOU are supposed to be a hero.
Living in the past? DON'T. It left you, long ago. 
The year is new. And opportunities will be new.
Seize them, before the year ends again. 

Depression? Well, KILL it. 
And really, have a HAPPY New Year, because if it isn't happy, what's the point?


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Revisiting.

When I was young, Oh, when I was young... Everything was so much fun. Had no dreams, had no pun, but oh, it was so much fun. The hugs from mama, learning skates, learning to ride a bicycle and the dance with papa. The fights with di and the games too.. Telling on her to mom and dad, and the midnight stories too.. No cellphone, no wifi, Even the cable was out, Had a playground, had a school, and there was plenty happiness, no doubt There were friends, who brought plenty smiles Them, I still dream of, After the closing of blinds... And now, Oh its still good,, With the new world around.. but the old days, I will always miss their sound.
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