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20 Things You Learn In Teenage


  1. You will fall out of love and you will regret it. It's awful. Breaking someone else's heart is even more terrible than getting your own heart, broken.
  2. You will love someone who won't ever love you back. Happens at least once with everyone. It's okay, you'll move on. Probably, after totally embarrassing yourself and realizing that they don't deserve your love at all.
  3. You will let people walk all over you because you cannot afford to lose them. Yes, you are stupid. You are a teenager, after all.
  4. We need to forgive others. It's never good for us to hold grudges.
  5. But it's not okay when they make a mistake the third time. It never will be okay. Leave them. They can go f**k their ass wherever and whenever they want.
  6. You need to forgive yourself. Everyone makes mistakes. Believe it or not, those mistakes make our life better in some way.
  7. When your first friend is cheating on your second friend, you are not supposed to tell that friend and ruin your friendship with your first friend. No good comes out of meddling, okay? BACK OFF.
  8. Sometimes it's good to shut up and not start or continue the fight.
  9. But you learn to take your stand when they put you down. This world will always try to PUT YOU DOWN.
  10. Being nice to people is not always good for you.
  11. Kindness or innocence is misjudged as dumbness. You are sensitive? No, You are lame!
  12. Your ex won't call you when it's your sister's wedding. Okay, this one is irrelevant.
  13. Rebounds suck! It's better to remain hopelessly single than to have a terrible rebound. Nothing is worse than your rebound breaking up with you because of your depressed behavior.
  14. People judge. So, go judge them and let them judge you.
  15. People will be jealous if you are popular. Your fake friends too will be.
  16. Your friend-with-benefits won't ever think you are their type unless you are Mila Kunis or Justin Timberlake. Alright?
  17. When you keep getting attracted to people who are committed to someone else, it's because you prefer the safest way to not be in any relationship. You are just not ready to like single people and enter complications. You had a hunch about it, right?
  18. You will be stood up by the friend you think is the easy catch for Valentine's day. Or maybe, this weird shit happened just with me. Errr...
  19. Even if he takes you out to Enrique's concert, you won't be able to like that rich guy who is perfect and likes you so much. You just cannot. It's somehow impossible for your brain mechanism. No matter how smart you are in all the rest of the things.
  20. You will find a friend you would fear to lose. You may not find love here, but you will find that person who will stand by you no matter what.

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Revisiting.

When I was young, Oh, when I was young... Everything was so much fun. Had no dreams, had no pun, but oh, it was so much fun. The hugs from mama, learning skates, learning to ride a bicycle and the dance with papa. The fights with di and the games too.. Telling on her to mom and dad, and the midnight stories too.. No cellphone, no wifi, Even the cable was out, Had a playground, had a school, and there was plenty happiness, no doubt There were friends, who brought plenty smiles Them, I still dream of, After the closing of blinds... And now, Oh its still good,, With the new world around.. but the old days, I will always miss their sound.

That Overused Term.

Ever think of love? What are the chances that a person could fall in love madly and deeply, to the extent that it consumes them? 10 times? Or maybe only once? They say those who do not seek it, those who do not fight for it, might not even find it. They may spend their entire lives, either hung over someone who they loved and lost, or settle for someone they do not even love. Under societal pressures or because of their own loneliness? But people have felt that emotion throughout history. Some find it in separation, which is also known to be the strongest of all the loves that exist. The dire need to look at someone and feel alive. The missing that is so powerful that it overtakes your mind and body. In the times of quarantine, the strings of your own heart can very well be understood. It is all peaceful out and there is a certain deafening silence. It could make you hear your soul, for you have nowhere to escape. Immerse yourself in books and movies as much as you want, but ...

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