We always do. But, there are some messed up minds in this world who choose to still be ambiguous. You know why? Because of the fear. The fear that if we realize our honest wishes, we might never be able to fulfill them. Instead, we choose to live in denial, and busy ourselves living lives that we don't want to live. Doing things that we don't really like. Talking to people we don't want to speak with.
Whereas, life is never as complicated as we make it. We only have to follow the heart strings. Be brave to know what ruins you, and what you seek. Be strong enough to make a change. Who says, we won't make mistakes? We would. A million of them.
But learning the art of knowing what we want -- is an epiphany. It helps us get rid of all the bewilderment in our head or around us. Then, we bring hope into our lives. Then, we can make things happen. Maybe it'll need a little struggle. But without that realization , we will have no direction.
There are ways to know we are heading in the right direction. And honestly, that road is quite serene and without any toxicity. Things aren't complex anymore. And when you smile, it is not a burden. You may even find yourself smiling on your own. You remember all the beauty in life that exists. The blue skies, the good weather, the whiff of laughter with friends.
Once you realize what you want --the only question which will remain is -- Are you going to put efforts to achieve that desire, or would you let time roll by? Are you willing to risk it all, for what you seek? Would you in fact, take the road that seems a little risky, but worth it?
Aaggghhh living in self-denial, couldn't have put it any better.
ReplyDeleteAs you said it isn't as complex as it seems, it's just that paralyzing fear keeping us from pursuing what we really want to do. If only it were that easy to be brave and put away all the uncertainty and doubts and leave them behind
It isn't easy . But till you aren't taking a chance, you are simply letting time roll by. And it is such a waste. One day you'll end up doing what you have wanted all along, but wonder, why you didn't do it sooner. Good luck!
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