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11 ways to being Free

This independence day , I looked into MYSELF.!  Maybe you need to too. There are a lot of ways we get stuck in our own little world. Maybe you are too. Maybe you need to set your wings and get ready for a flight! (NOTE : Do not get hit by some building or a tree though)
  1. Ask yourself one thing. What you really want to do but you haven't been able to? Its okay if you have not figured out everything till now. But you must realize what your passion is.The one thing which can keep you happy on your own..For a lazy person like me , it can be writing or reading. Or maybe you just want to watch "games of thrones" all day long.(Seriously, thats too lazy though) Just figure it out. And do it.. Take out time. If you want a magazine out, talk to any possible person you can! If you enjoy painting , paint.Its not necessary that you should want to become MF Hussain or unless you do not want to EVER touch that brush!  Because When you get to notice the mini-orgasms of your friends, i mean,the oohs and aahs, it feels awesome!
  2. The committed ones got a serious trouble. Many a times, they cant go to meet their just-a-friend-yaaar because he/she is of opposite sex. See, its fun. Its entertaining to meet new people. To be social. So let him/her go out with them and enjoy their new time. That is okay! your love may increase you fool. Don't be an insecure ass or bitch.. according to the gender ofcourse!
  3. Step out from that ego circle of yours.Let the grudges go. Forgive the people around. Talk to an old school friend you had fought with like million years ago! You had good times too, right? There is nothing as dangerous as an ego can do to you. Its always soothing to cherish the good memories by just calling your friend. Don't be so obnoxious!! 
  4. Intimacy issues ..you have right? Don't avoid roaming around with the people you are interested in or who are interested in you. It will be a good time and if its not it will be a funny experience which you can laugh about with your friends!! Go with the flow. Do whatever your heart is urging you to! Its not necessary to stop at every turn and look long into the future before moving ahead. Perch on the little cloud. Fly a little while. You have kept your feet on the ground for long now. 

  5. Go tell that girl that you like her. Even if she says no, you ll be glad that you let those 3 year old feelings out. There is no bigger regret than a regret of not trying. Adding, there is also a chance that you ll get what you always wanted. Strip yourself off your insecurities!
  6. Face  your fears too! There is nothing right with living your life according to your fears. They mess up your life. Go cliff diving, go bungee-jumping! Fall off that building for GOD'S SAKE!!!  Do what you think you cannot do! Do what you fear of. Take Risks!! they make your life a lot more adventurous.
     
  7. Regrets are a part of life. What happened was meant to be. There is no mistake. There is always an experience. There is always a destiny. There is nothing as a "wrong" decision . Its just our mind which decides those feces for us to cry upon. 
    Maybe not so appropriate, but its a cute little baby :*
  8. Be strong. If you are currently at your depressed state, believe that everything is going to be fine in few weeks or months!! even better after years. Maybe you will forget about it all and then, you will laugh that you were just stupid to be shedding your tears over issues that didn't matter in the long run.
  9. Mourn. Let go off that heavy load you have in your heart. Weep. Its okay to be a bit sensitive and sad sometimes. People wont hate you. Tell your friends what you going through. Take it all out. Complain. They will hear. Don't be guilty of being upset. If not to the people then at least be true to yourself. Don't pretend that you are happy if actually you are not!! Its a part of life, it will get better. They didn't lie when they said that Time is a Healer.Also, Laugh. Go watch "friends". *I cant stop promoting it. They should pay me* 
  10. Always care. Help others. Strangers or Friends. Expect least in return. You will become a little pleased about yourself when you do that. You know... "good deeds are selfish" because they always make you feel uplifted..above everyone around. NOT TRUE :
  11. Its your opinion that matters at the end. People say. People always talk. They will judge. But be yourself. And be proud of yourself for who you are. There is always something good you can find in yourself. Look inside and stay at peace.~
PS : A very Happy Independence Day :)

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